Turning our Tragedy into a National Dialogue to Combat "The Choking Game"


Erik Robinson April 1, 2010

Pass-out activities, commonly known in the media as “The Choking Game,”  have been around for centuries.  Unlike auto-erotic asphyxiation  (AeA), teens and tweens have been experimenting with this for non-sexual reasons (e.g., curiosity, peer pressure, the mistaken belief  that it is safer than drugs) because they are unaware of the dangers.

This generations-old issue has seen a recent resurgence as a result  of You Tube, making the internet a cyber-playground.  Kids learn  this deadly activity from other kids all across the world and  believe  from other kids that it is harmless. They lack effective education to combat what they hear on the web, putting them all at risk.

The Choking Game differs from other risky activities is that it:

  • is not illegal and has no deterrent of legal consequence;
  • does not require acquisition of a product;
  • can be “played” alone; and
  • interrupts basic brain function, therefore it is impossible to know when brain damage or death will occur.

It is an equal-opportunity danger – it knows no racial, cultural, religious or socio-economic boundaries.

While studies estimate 6 – 16% of teens have participated in pass-out games, anecdotal reports indicate the numbers to be much higher.  Increasing articles cite The Choking Game as one of the top dangerous behaviors that need to be on parents’ radar.

Statistically it has been considered an aberration because the numbers of deaths and injuries attributed to ‘The Choking Game’ appear small, hence unimportant.  But statistics do not tell the story.  There is no death code for The Choking Game, nor is there an injury code for Choking Game injuries.  In addition to a lack of codes to correctly gather statistics, there is no standardized way for law enforcement and medical examiners to determine cause of death.  As a result, most Choking Game deaths are misclassified as suicides.  And choking game-related injuries are rarely reported with the correct attribution.  Even when a correct determination is made, many families bear their grief in silence because of shock and shame, “How could my child have done something so stupid?  What was s/he thinking?”

Erik Robinson is one such victim of the Choking Game ...

My son Erik died April 21, 2010 from the Choking Game.  He was a normal, healthy 6th grader at Lincoln Middle School in Santa Monica, California - an "A" student, avid athlete and boy scout. His dream was to go to West Point, enter the military and then law enforcement. He was the opposite of a youth "at risk".  Credible evidence indicates that Erik's first exposure to the choking game was during school the day before he tried it at home and died.

At first we said that Erik died from a tragic accident until one schoolmate came forward and corroborated what the police maintained.  A reporter wanted to write a story that Erik was cyber-bullied into suicide which was totally false.  I was so incensed that I decided to go public with the truth.

Thus began the journey called Erik’s Cause ...

With the valuable input of many professionals, we have created an exceptional non-graphic skill-based training program that addresses the dangers of ‘The Choking Game’ in a way that does not make kids curious to try it and also builds character skills to help kids say “no” to risk-taking behavior in general.  The training is standardized and can be easily replicated.  We provide education for parents as well as kids which also helps open a door of opportunity for parents to talk with their children about other sensitive topics in addition to the Choking Game.

Decades ago, talk of substance abuse prevention in schools was unthinkable.  Recently bullying was a taboo subject until it gained national attention.  We believe the time has come to bring The Choking Game out of the shadows and into public awareness so our children can be saved from this epidemic and families can be spared the grief of losing a child to this preventable activity.

Erik's dream was to be a soldier - he wanted to save lives.  My mission is to honor his legacy by saving the lives of other kids and sparing families from this type of blindsiding loss. Please share your story with us, tell a friend, share with others, join our cause and save kids' lives.

Thank you, Judy Rogg (Erik's mom)

Here is a portion of our training program:

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commented 2018-02-05 12:25:15 -0800 · Flag
Sure do miss that young man! Alas, we are still seeing way too many kids die from this activity, and the Youtube posts promoting this game among youngsters are very concerning.
commented 2017-11-28 11:03:55 -0800 · Flag
I teach 7th grade health and am so thankful for Erik’s Cause. Our district has adopted this wonderful awareness program and I love to see the light come on in students’ eyes when they realize the physical ramifications this can have and how dangerous the choking game really is – it is no game at all. Our community has lost too many to this in the past. Judy, thank you for the time and energy you put into this educational information that we can share with our students. All kids need to be aware of the dangers.Parents and teachers need to share this information with their children.
commented 2017-11-22 07:58:26 -0800 · Flag
My name is Clauber, I’m From Brazil, I’m 27 years old today, when I was 12 years old I used to play choking game, but I stopped when I almost died, I had near-death experience, I appeared in a white place, with no walls, no floor, absolutely empty space, I didn’t remmember my name, or why I was dead, but I knew I was dead. So suddenly appeared many human shapes with no faces and started to fast approaching and screaming loud, so I was pulled down, I saw the place I was from the sky and falling down I felt I entering my body and I woke up without memory, I stayed afraid and with no memory for few minutes. I know this testimony may seem strange, I don’t know if this events happened inside my brain or in a spiritual dimention, I just want to ask all people don’t do this game, it’s dangerous, as you can see in this website many people died doing this game, please parents talk with your children about it, show them many people died doing this. I fell so sorry for all you losses, I hope your cause make many people aware of this danger, I wasn’t aware, I was a smart kid, but kids don’t have good sense of danger, it’s important to talk with the kids about this.
commented 2017-05-18 02:06:56 -0700 · Flag
Sarie Harmse

I am from South Africa. We lost my grandson on the age of 14 two years ago of the choking game and we all miss him so terribly.
commented 2017-05-17 15:14:20 -0700 · Flag
I lost a boy scout in my troop to this, Simon died two months ago to this senseless tragedy. Thanks for shining the light on this.
commented 2017-01-09 11:39:55 -0800 · Flag
I have a 14 year old & was totally surprised to find out about this choking game I totally agree it needs to be stopped parents need to have some type of awareness of the symptoms or what it looks like when your child has tried this game
commented 2017-01-09 10:45:41 -0800 · Flag
My heart breaks for the parents
commented 2017-01-09 10:44:57 -0800 · Flag
I use to play back in 1999 to 2001. Looking back i realize it wasnt worth it. Sad to know how easily peer pressure can influence a child.
commented 2016-12-17 11:09:38 -0800 · Flag
I’m saddened beyond words for you loss. So thankful you allowed God to turn the loss of your child into something good by warning others about this misguided game.
God Bless You and your Family.
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commented 2016-08-20 06:56:14 -0700 · Flag
My friend, Tommy, just lost his 11 year old who tried the choking game. So tragic! His only son, for no reason. I have an 11 year old. More people need to be aware and we need to try to get the websites and videos taken down.
commented 2016-04-25 12:54:24 -0700 · Flag
My best friend just lost her son on April 12th from the choking game. An entire town is devistated and most think he just hung himself. How can I help my friend through this tragedy? She is understandably broken. Her son Austin was 15. What can we do?
commented 2016-01-14 21:09:49 -0800 · Flag
I am so very sorry for your loss, but maybe God made him an angel so through him you could save other kids. There is a reason for everything, Erik’s story is tragic, no doubt but there are so many children that die everyday from cancer, car accidents and accidental shootings and yes suicide it’s truly mind-boggling. As a single Mom of two sons (11 and 15) that have thought of suicide (both are in counseling, and I participate also) This story hit me hard. I read the entire page with youngest (I will with my oldest as well) and we watched the video and it made him really sad and me also. All of these beautiful kids , over/done. We talked about all the things they will never do and I think it sunk in. Life is precious and it can be gone in the blink of an eye, for whatever reason. This a strong message for parents too. Love each other everyday and night and it may still not be enough, but at least we know we loved them well.

Thank you for creating Erik’s Cause and making people aware,
Blessings to you and yours Judy.
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commented 2015-03-02 07:47:25 -0800 · Flag
commented 2015-02-18 18:57:23 -0800 · Flag
We just lost our 12 year old, and it was immediately obvious that he was trying the choking game. We had talked to him about it, months ago, when it was in the news. We didn’t know it was on his radar and we certainly didn’t think he’d try it. His father, grandmother and little brother were right in the next room. We think he probably thought he’d try this to find out what the fuss was about and then go have his after school snack and some TV before homework, and maybe, we don’t really know, but maybe, in his mind, he might have thought this might give him a little prestige amongst his peers. He was only 12 and very happy. He had been diagnosed with Aspergers when he was younger, but had asked us not to keep talking about it, because, he said, he was over it. We haven’t thought for even a minute that this was suicide. My husband, Simon’s dad fround him and immediately recognized it as the choking game. His knees were near the floor and he was just leaning forward. This was just a kid who tried to do something incredibly stupid. We will never forget Simon, nor will we stop talking about him. We view his death as a horrible, stupid accident. Even though we had casually discussed this with him months ago, it didn’t sink in. It isn’t enough to tell parents about this or kids. You have to scare the crap out of your kids about this!
commented 2014-11-12 20:04:48 -0800 · Flag
Hello Judy. Sue McNamara Barber here. I turned on my computer tonight and saw your beautiful face on my ISP home page. I am truly sorry to hear about your losing Erik in such a tragic way. He looks like he was a wonderful boy. I am so proud of you for the actions you have taken over these past five years to help other families to avoid this loss in the wake of your loss. Love you, Sue
commented 2014-11-12 18:51:13 -0800 · Flag
I’m in tears from this video! I have a 12 year old son and I am going to close my computer and go talk to him about this right now! Your loss is not in vain, I will do my part to spread the word! Thank you for sharing with other parents and kids to prevent the loss of more! Bless you!!
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posted about this on Facebook 2014-11-12 13:20:35 -0800
This is an important cause!!
commented 2014-11-12 13:16:33 -0800 · Flag
I remember playing this game as a kid at slumber parties. I had no idea it was so dangerous. I just had a great conversations with my two sons about it. Thank you.
commented 2014-11-12 13:11:53 -0800 · Flag
I lost my son to this a year ago. I miss him every day.
commented 2014-10-22 13:25:51 -0700 · Flag
Hi, I’m from Brazil .. lots of good information ! Sorry for ur lost. thank you for what you’ve been doing .
followed this page 2014-01-23 07:48:33 -0800
commented 2014-01-12 05:18:24 -0800 · Flag
Thanks for this valuable information, Judy. It is much appreciated.
commented 2013-11-06 18:48:15 -0800 · Flag
TY :)
commented 2013-10-03 06:34:38 -0700 · Flag
Judy this is a great website, lots of great information, thank you for all you do
commented 2013-07-11 17:28:51 -0700 · Flag
Your site looks great… lots of information. A great page honouring your son Judy. Praying many lives will be touched and saved through this site.
Erik's Cause
Saving lives with a non-graphic, skills-based approach to raise awareness and stop deadly pass-out games (most commonly known as "The Choking Game").

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